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Do you ever have those days when life feels so glum and despondent, that so many other versions of your life could have happened to you and you figure you’d be happier in that story. Except that isn’t your story, this is your story. And you aren’t happy with it. It’s boring, rhythmic, out of…

Growing up being bullied meant I learned how to keep tallies quickly. And combined with being emotional, it meant that my form of revenge was to hope people disappointed me, vent against them in my head, and disappear from their lives. Though the vengeance of leaving gave me a feeling of superiority, it almost always…

I feel an intense longing for certain people to be people they aren’t, for them to transform into the exact person I always wanted (needed) them to be. And then I realize I can’t change them, and that my task is to accept them as they are. I’m to make peace with the things they…